THERE'S JUST...

not a whole lot to post right now. I installed a ceiling fan, does that count?

AKRON AEROS

Will, Sean, Dawn and I at Canal Park in Akron watching the Akron Aeros. You may see more of this park as it's right across the street from Akron Children's Hospital.

WORLD WAR II v.2

NAVY PLANE

A-10 THUNDERBOLT

DATE FOR HEART SURGERY

The date has been set for Sean's surgery-August 24th. After Dawn got off the phone she made an interesting observation...they had dates as early as August 10th, and Dawn said it's easier to get a date to have open heart surgery than to get into the hair salon.

DAYTON AIRSHOW

Will, his friend Brady, and I headed to Dayton yesterday for the Dayton Air show, and had a great time. I'd load more pictures but the internet is running a little slow, so maybe more another time. The Thunderbirds always rock the house, and the ears.
I see there's another show in Cleveland in September, with a few different attractions, so maybe we can get to that one. We'll see.

HEART SURGERY IS COMING

We met with the surgeons today and it looks like Sean will be having his surgery at the end of August or early September. They lead us through the exact procedure, which includes "stopping his heart" so they can work on it; he'll be hooked up to another machine which will act his heart and lungs. They cautioned and reminded us there is always the posibility that something can go wrong, even leading to death, but he needs this surgery, so we can only leave him in God's hands.

The one piece of new information we learned is this will not be his last heart surgery. One of the devices being placed in his heart (which by the way comes from a donor), will not grow as he grows, so, at some point in the future, he will need a new "replacement". Also, this valve device can wear out over time, so it is quite likely, Sean will need 1-3 more operations over his lifetime.

That's it for now, I'm a bit overloaded with information of a biological/anotomical nature. Makes me dizzy and tired. Tomorrow, Will and I and his friend will be going to the Dayton Air Show, so I need to rest up for that. Pictures to follow.

THIS IS WHAT IT HAS COME TO

I am a 40 year old man and have been reduced to comparison shopping for either the Royal Stepstool Potty or the Cushie-Tushie. We ended up with the Cushie-Tushie and are quite pleased, as is Sean.

HEART UPDATE

Just a quick note to say we saw Sean's heart doctor today and he is recommending we proceed with the more optimal surgery for Sean; this will most likely happen in August. We meet with the surgeons next week. More on this later....

GOTCHA DAY

In adoption circles, "gotcha day" is the day you got your child. Not a very creative term, but it gets to the point. Well, it was one year ago today that Dawn, Liz, Will and I stepped into a non descript building and went to the 9th or 10th floor and saw two ladies walk on the other side of the room and into a private room with a kid whose head was shaved but had a pony tail. I'm thinking, must be some other families child because the picture we had of Shan An En looked nothing like that. I was wrong. He was our child and that was the first of many new things we were going to learn about "En En", or Sean.

It's certainly been a good year and we see God's hand in bringing Sean to our family. It's been a hard year too. For Dawn it's been about adjusting to having a 2-3 year old in the house again, dealing with his every want. Out of a sense of insecurity, Sean likes ritual and routine, so it is Dawn who has to lay down with him every night. He won't let me. For me, it's about overcoming selfishness...an on-going task. We were on track to get the first two kids old enough to be independent so Dawn and I could have our own time together. We did a lot of things together as a family, like go to movies and sporting events, or staying up late as a family watching TV. That's all changed. Now, it may be Will and I do something, or Liz and Dawn, sometimesSean, Will and me, but no girls, or Liz, Will and I. It's changed, but that's OK. We still do vacations together, but were back to having to pack a stroller, or ask for a child's seat at the restaurant. And we have to watch our time around 12:00 noon since that's nap time, and 10:00 pm seems late again.

Still, none of us would trade not having Sean. We are reminded often what life may have been like for Sean had no one adopted him, and it makes me sad. We count it a privilege to raise, nurture and shape Sean, hoping he someday becomes a Godly person with a future. We find new life in verses like Psalm 68:5 that say God places the lonely in families...yet wish more people would take up the offer and challenge of James 1:27...and engage themselves with alleviating the suffering of others, chief among them widows and orphans, knowing this truly pleases God.
Today is just another normal day for Sean...just as it should be.

HEART CATH

I just got back from Akron Childrens Hospital. Sean is doing well after having a heart cath, and is coming out of the "sleepy gas" ( I can't spell anesthesia), better than when he had his teeth done.

While Dawn and I waited, the staff at the heart center gave us a bag of goodies which included a nice book on how the heart works, diagrams, problems, symptoms, and surgeries performed to fix the various defects that happen. It's been a long time since I was in biology, so it was good to use the two hour wait we had to freshen up on what goes on with the heart. Glad I did. When the procedure was over, Dawn and I went back to a room where the doctor explained what he saw and what his early prognosis is. He also showed us video of the procedure, which was fascinating.

The doctor must still meet with a panel of heart doctors and surgeons, but if what Dr. Lane saw today holds, Sean may have a procedure called a 'Fontan', to repair his heart. To hard to explain here how that works, other than to say, it's a re-tubing of his heart valves/arteries. As far as the time frame goes, still not sure, but it sounds like sooner rather than later.

I had to come home early today because the construction company came to make a few adjustments to the house, and our appliances are being delivered today. I am waiting to hear from Dawn whether she and Sean can come home today or not. While Dr. Lane had his instruments in Sean's heart, he clipped a 'coil' that was sending blood, via a vein, into his lungs, and that is not supposed to be happening. (Got to see the before and after video of that). After clipping this vein, it coils up does nothing, along with keeping blood out.

One last thing, while waiting in the recovery room, other kids are being brought in from their various surgeries and being hooked up to monitors. The other kids' monitors read blood oxygen levels of 100. Sean is still hovering in the 71-78 level. I'm repeatedly told as an adult with that reading , we'd have real problems on our hands.

INDULGE ME

If there wasn't enough emotional stress having to put my dog down, we also moved this past Thursday and Friday. Since we don't get TV hook up until this Thursday, we've had a lot of time to actually unpack, get organized and build a giant trash heap in the garage (imagine that, no TV, you get a lot accomplished). Dawn was putting the picture albums back on the bookcase when she pulled out one in particular which had photos that were black and white (harkening back to a day when I still had to put film in the camera, and I must have been in the B/W mood). There were some good ones in there, of Will and Liz when they were still really little. I'll have to post those some day.

Anyhow, the ones below take me back to when I first got Truman. I remember my dad was concerned Truman's ears would never stand up. It did take awhile...I guess he was a late bloomer.

GOODBYE TRUMAN (1997-2009)

TRADE

Well, I shall watch one of my favorite teams get worse while another favorite gets better. I'm just glad I have both hats I can wear.

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TWO TACOS FOR THE LADIES

A co-worker sent this to me. After seeing it, you'll understand, but one, I wish I could sing, and two, do something like this without laughing.

I go away for a few days and come back to see Will has taught Sean some action moves....

THE ASSOCIATE

I just finished John Grisham's newest book, The Associate. I enjoyed his earliest books, especially The Painted House. But this last one had a good story up until the end. It just fell flat. So save yourself $24.99 and wait until the mass paperback, or better yet, just check it out at the library.

I also just finished a peanut butter and banana sandwich that was worth the price I paid.

THE FACES OF A BIRTHDAY BOY

Today our little guy turned 3. In just one more month we will have had Sean one year. Our social worker came for the last time yesterday, and she asked me how I was adjusting. Part of my answer was, I cannot imagine not having Sean in our lives. Though it's been an adjustment, an on-going one at that, we are certainly blessed to have him. Today is filled with balloons, presents, extended family, cake and ice cream. There are still times I wonder what life would be like today for Sean if no one had chosen to adopt him. Would the workers even celebrate his life with a special party? Maybe. Maybe not.

Today in Shantou China, it is 79 degrees with 100% humidity and fog, and the orphanage Sean is from is a non-descript building in the middle of a city with a population of 1,333,973, and a country of 1.3 billion people-7,000 miles from America. Yet, these are numbers that did not prevent God from bringing us Sean, and for that we will always be grateful.

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FORGOTTEN

I saw this in Morehead, Kentucky, on my way to my hotel. It's as if someone pulled over to the side of the road and left this caboose for someone else to take.